the dr said it may be a age thing but he wants to do a ureth

the dr said it may be a age thing but he wants to do a uretha dialtion I am not ready for that he gave me flomax which i am allergic to sulphur is there another medication to try first some leakage some retention during day no problem going late afternoon or all night

Urethral dilation is an outdated procedure. I would suggest you get a second opinion. If you are having problems emptying your bladder than there are other treatments to try such using the pelvic floor muscle to empty the bladder.