Ejaculation(orgasm)

I am a normally healthy male of 65. My wife of 40 years passed away a few years ago. For various reasons we did not have intercourse for the last 5 years, or so, before she passed away and I would relieve myself by masturbating. I have been dating other women for the last 6 months. <br> I have no problem attaining an erection, but I can have intercourse for an hour and not attain an orgasm (ejaculation). I can attain ejaculation in about ten minutes when I masturbate, but not when I am having intercourse.<br> Anyone have any suggestions?<br> Wayne

My husband started testosterone replacement a couple weeks ago with a gel he rubs on his upper arms in the morning. He mentioned last week that he had slight soreness in his upper arm muscles, nothing major. Has anyone ever heard of this?<br> <br> Maureen<br>