A urologist has just diagnosed me with I.C. He didn't do a cystoscopy, just diagnosed by my symptoms which have been life long, off and on. I am experiencing it all! frequency, urgency, incomplete emptying, pain, up at night many times,....Two things that are really bothering me are: how do I deal with the incontinence?always being wet, mini pads make me sore after a while. And my tailbone is very painful as is my pubic bone on the one side. Does this ring true for someone with 'just' I.C.?