No - your daugher is very young. Punishmnet may worsen the problem! I suggest you look at the following URLs and see if you can try any of the suggestions to decrease daytime urinary incontinence. It could be related to diet as beverages with caffeine (also in chocalate) can trigger urgency. . UI in kids: http://www.seekwellness.com/incontinence/uti_in_childr en.htm and http://www.seekwellness.com/incontinence/bladder_disor ders_in_children.htm