Hi, Amy--I've been on Androgel for exactly 3 months this week. I had low levels of testosterone, close to your boyfriend. My libido has gone through the roof! Other than the side effect of slight acne this medication has completely changed my life. I feel healthier, better rested, and far more assertive in general--not just in the bedroom. From what you've described, it sounds like your boyfriend's lack of interest in sex with you is more than low testosterone...best of luck in your situation!